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the child has never worked with Cedric, or seems uncomfortable
with him, I might say, "I bet that Cedric would like to do that
one," even though I suspect Cedric may be more interested in
another activity. Or when I am working with Cedric, I might
say to the other child, "What do you want to do first today?"
and give him the choice of Cedric's two favorite materials.
Later, I'll give Cedric the opportunity to choose some other
work.
Matt and I were sitting and watching a child hold the bowl and
work at bubble beating (beating soap suds with a whisk). When
another child began his turn I said, "I'll bet Matt would like
to hold the bowl for you, he can be your helper." The child
said he didn't need help, but I suggested that Matt was his
friend, and friends help each other. Well, I didn't know if
that sunk in or not. But then a month later when I was doing
a matching activity with Matt, one of the little girls who had
been watching came over and said Matt could be her helper. Samantha
was crying and a little boy asked me why. I said, "Well, why
do you cry? I think she's like you, she probably cries because
she gets mad. But she can't tell why like you can." |
Young children are usually aware of the presence of a child
with a disability, but may not feel comfortable approaching
the child or know how to initiate interactions with a child
who does not speak or move independently. Five important
strategies for encouraging participation follow:
- Use a warm and accepting manner with children
When a child with a severe disability initially enters
an inclusive program, he or she typically receives considerable
adult support. In fact, it is not uncommon for someone
to act in the role of an "integration facilitator." At
least initially, peers' perceptions of the child are influenced
by the manner in which adults interact with the child
with a disability as well as how an adult interacts with
the typically developing peers who approach the child
or are in near proximity. Obviously, a warm and accepting
manner conveys the desirability of the child as a potential
communication partner and makes both the adult and child
more approachable.
- Encourage frequent brief interactions when initially
introducing a child to his or her peers
Since the child with a severe disability is often unable
to initiate interactions in a traditional manner, an adult
or peer partner must offer the initial invitation. One
way to begin developing interaction patterns between children
is to encourage brief interactions that match the interactions
of other children in a setting. For example, when an adult
is carrying the child across the room, he or she may stop
by another child's table and say, "Jacob wanted to say
hi!" One might also invite children to briefly stop to
see an accomplishment of their classmate. For example,
Jacob's teacher or facilitator might comment, "Jacob would
like you to see the tower he just helped to build."
- Invite a child to become involved in an ongoing activity
with their classmate
Offer children in the classroom opportunities to participate
in an ongoing activity along with their classmate. This
allows children to become familiar with their peer who
experiences a disability while focusing on the activity
rather than the interaction. This manner of involving
a child also allows him or her to comfortably decline
the offer. For example, Maria, Jacob's teacher, might
comment, "Jacob is matching the sound cylinders by nodding
'yes' when the two cylinders sound the same. Would you
like to take turns listening to the cylinders with Jacob
and help him by shaking them when it is his turn?"
- Suggest that a child select an activity that will
include their classmate
The onset of an activity period or when children are between
activities are natural times to suggest that a typically
developing child select an activity for mutual participation.
Allowing the typically developing child to express his
or her preferences for an activity may enhance their sense
of involvement and enjoyment of the time spent with a
new friend. It may be helpful to make several suggestions
for appropriate activities and ask the child to select
from those options. (Of course, typically developing children
must also learn that their friends with disabilities have
preferences and should have opportunities to make choices
too!)
- Facilitate meaningful participation in a natural
and helpful manner
While the typically developing child can learn to act
as an effective helper and peer tutor for a child with
a severe disability, this should not be their only role.
Ensuring that both children have an active and necessary
part in an activity that both perceive as fun and/or valuable
is critical. The role of an adult facilitator is to teach
young children ways to assist their friend while also
identifying meaningful roles for both (or all) children
in the activity. It is critical to initially support sustained
interactions between children. This can be accomplished
by providing information about the child with a disability
and interpreting his or her nonverbal communication so
that a typically developing child begins to recognize
the behavior of his or her new friend as communicative.
This requires that the adult be a careful and responsive
observer during all child interactions.
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